Showing posts with label ravenhawkellc. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ravenhawkellc. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Why Good Enough Isn't Good Enough!

There are several terrible ideas that came out of the 90's and 2000 eras. The Four Hour Work Week is one of them. Here's why, it has people turning over personal information to other people that allow for identity theft. We've already seen the IRS go into India and do busts there for fraud. The sky's the limit on what people will think up.

Publishing is another area, it can be written text books or software. If formulas are wrong in both, your in for a world of hurt. Wrong formulas in your taxes can definitely spell disaster. Imagine it in software or code. Now you have glitches and not knowing when or where it will strike in your system. If you handle sensitive information, it can spell disaster for your company.

You think the crash of the stock market was bad; with more problems showing up in programs and software. People are in for a world of hurt. If that glitch happens to effect a program that is used to provide safety in such things as launching rockets, driving cars. You can only imagine the law suits there will be.

It's funny how people can become so complacent with other peoples information and safety. Expect more of these things to blow up in people's faces.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net

Sunday, April 1, 2018

Dream Time

Dream time can help us problem solve a lot of things going on in our lives. It can also allow spirit to communicate warnings to us. It can be hard to tell the difference at first. If your an inventor, it can be the perfect time to get answers to that area where your stuck. Premonitions come to us in dreams. It is the perfect time to see what we want to change in our waking time.

I have often received warnings in my dreams. Sometime I've listened and sometimes I haven't. It's kind of like studying for a test. When we didn't listen, we learn things from those incidents. I've learned to listen or at least try to listen. I'm not a fan of having car accidents. In those dreams, it can be a story playing out to let us know that we're on the right path. It can also be to let us know that change is right around the corner.

Sometimes those warnings are literal or symbolic. In some cases it might take practice to get them right. In others it might just be about getting the message. Each person need to learn for themselves on this one. I've had some wonderful gifts unfold with these dreams. Things that I could never have predicted or imagined. Spirit works in some pretty amazing ways.

Most people will have things that relate to the physical world. People that are psychic or healers. We get different messages that relate to both the physical and the spirit world. We have our feet in both worlds and it get much more complicated. This is when some of us wish we had boring lives sometimes. Regardless it will definitely pull you out of your comfort zone.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net
 

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Poverty

To each person that word means something different. It depends on the country you grew up in and how it was viewed by that culture. It has a smell, feeling and taste. To some it might be sadness, violence, insecurity?

It might feel like a simpler time, depending on your memories if they were happy or sad? Certain foods in an instance can trigger memories or feelings of happiness or sadness. The taste of certain foods are reminders as well. Those that are visual, will find things that annoy them on sight.

These reminders can be just enough incentive to make sure that we never go back to a time like that without a fight. Here's the funny part, poverty can be a person growing up in a middle class home. It's all about our frame of reference.

To some people poverty is about money. To some it's about not having enough family or friends. See it's all very abstract. That's why logic isn't always the truth. Poverty can be synonymous with stress, pain, shame, violence and the list can go on.

Some of this is brought about by constantly comparing our lives to others. Some of it is just a brutal reality check when whats going out is more than whats coming in. Some of it happens, when things are beyond our control. For some this will be a temporary stop on the journey of life and others will feel like their life has hit the longest drought on journey.

Others make a game out of it. They have learned how to make it work for them and content with what they have and no intention of changing themselves. While others look at it as something dirty and abhorant and can't find ways fast enough to dig themselves out of it.

The important part about these journeys is not to Judge yourself but try to reasses what you've learned and see if different choices will change the results?

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net


Sunday, October 11, 2015

Life's Journey

I've noticed more and more positive changes in my life, when I decided to do a personal house cleaning. I looked at personal relationships and those include family members. I decided if by a certain time line and it was about two years out. If those people hadn't grown and wanted to remain petty. I was cutting those people out of my life.

I was very direct with one of my aunts and told her she could either be part of my life or not? She was a little shocked, but she sort of understood where I was coming from. I wasn't going to be dragged down by anyone and that included my family members. I have never regretted that decision. I have moved forward in my personal life and my job relationships.

There have been big shifts in my work environment, I no longer meet people that are out to bully other people. The Universe will give you tests, where there might be a job that you need but the trade off would be working with a co-worker who is a bully. I have worked in such terrible environments in the past. I made a decision long ago that I would not work in a department or a company like that. These type of environments are very bad for your health.

I have noticed that when I stood my ground. The next work opportunity was very different and more positive. I enjoyed everyone that I worked with. My boss was very nice and relaxed. I've had some wonderful managers to work for. The best one's for me were more relaxed and laid back. I've also brought more positive things into my life that replaced the negative things. When you shift one thing, other things start to follow.

I started to have less drama in my life. I actually love my life, because it's on my terms. That doesn't mean that everything is always going to be lovely.  When things are starting to go to shit, know that there is a house cleaning underway. You will start to see more good things coming in when the things that you need to get rid of are removed. The bigger the shift, the bigger the gifts!

So when your life is really turned upside down then know that the gifts are coming and they will be huge. I have also noticed that in all of my environments that I meet people that need my gifts. I might know something that will help them heal. Sometimes they need to see a doctor but don't know it. Sometimes they need to make diet changes. I 've been in a lot of environments where a co-worker is going to have a heart attack or has cancer. I might suggest that they see a doctor to avoid a condition if its avoidable.

Even in the times when I feel like I'm not giving readings or healings. I am doing pro-bono work in some of my day jobs when my business is having its down times.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Friday, August 14, 2015

Conversations Left Unsaid

There have been many times that I've wanted to have a conversation with someone later on. Only to find that later never came because the other person died before I could have that conversation. People think that because someone is younger than someone else that they will out live them to have that conversation later on. This is never the case.

The thing is that you wanted to have the conversation with them because you wanted their perspective that no one else could give. It might have been about a past event that happened before you were ever born. These are personal conversations that we can't just have with anyone. This happened with a cousin who died quite quickly, so I was unable to ask her about a trauma that had happened to my great-grandmother. It happened to my best friends brother who committed suicide.

When these thoughts come it's best to talk to them that moment to schedule a time to have these conversations. You never know what's just waiting around the corner.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net


Saturday, July 11, 2015

Time Is An Illusion

Many of us are having a lot more craziness in our lives. It does seem like time is speeding up more and more . Some of it feels like its coming from outside our planet. With the solar system speeding up more and more it feels like we are experiencing the fall out from it.

Most of us are feeling more mentally and physically exhausted. When you wake up in the morning, it feels like the the sun and the time are not in sync. Like the Sunrise is running faster than the time on the clock. When it comes to our evenings. It feels like the Sunset has switched places in the evening. The time on the clocks is later than what the sunset looks like.

I've also been noticing that it seems like certain people are having a harder time staying in the Corporate arena. The time frame between employment and unemployment seems like it's shorter for some and much longer for others. It's almost like the Universe is stepping in and saying your time is coming to a close in the Corporate arena and your time in your own business is starting to open up more and more.

There seems to be more people transitioning from the mainstream to the spiritual journey.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Allowing Your Children To Be Who They're Meant To Be!

I've met many parents, who are dream crushers of their children. They are so focused on their children being successful that they never listen to the interests of their children. Our World is always changing, and no one is 100% sure where the careers or jobs will go tomorrow.

Something that seemed silly, might be huge money maker in the future. Being miserable in a job that you hate just to pay the bills can be incredibly draining mentally, physically and emotionally. When you are really happy in your job it really doesn't seem like work. It just flows effortlessly from the individuals and it touches others in the way its meant too.

No one has a right to expect another person to live their life for someone else. I remember someone I worked with wanted her son to become a programmer rather than a game designer. She was so focused on her own point of view that she couldn't see her son being successful as a game designer. I remember saying to her that she didn't have a right to force her goals on her son when that might not be his passion. The thing is that we all contribute to society in different ways and by trying to control another person you are stripping of their right to have free will.

Imagine someone saying to Benjamin Franklin, now don't try to figure out electricity you'll only look stupid and get burned! I'm sure Benjamin Franklin didn't have a lot of people cheering him on in the beginning.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
 

Saturday, May 2, 2015

Dreams

Dreams are very interesting things. They bring reality into full focus, when your just too busy to pay attention. It's almost like a compass that is there to steer you back on course when you've lost your way.

It allows you to realize when your deeply unhappy in your current situation. It brings up that anxiety and fear that we sometimes don't have time to face. It also allows us to realize when hope is right around the corner.

This is how inventors solve problems when they run into a wall when trying to work out a process in their invention.

It allows us to have a break from stress in our lives. It gives warnings that maybe it's time to change your course and start something new.

Sometimes it gives us a quick preview of the future and when the time comes. It's time for you to remember "What's Your Line."  You will either remember what you said in your dream or you will be forced to bunt and just wing it.

This is the time when the Universe communicates with us the most. We are at our most open and receptive moment.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net


Tuesday, April 7, 2015

2015

The 2015 energy is much better than 2014 and it feels like opportunities are much easier to come by than last year. The energy of last year was almost like pushing against a boulder. This energy doesn't feel so resistant. It's less like the Tarot card of the hanged man.

Some opportunities if there meant to be will fall right into place. Others will feel very illusive. I've noticed that my diet is changing more easily. Things that need to go are going missing. In some cases we get sudden bursts of energy and remove the clutter that has been stagnating in our homes and in our lives.

We notice that not only are we seeing changes in our life but even in the World around us. I'm noticing more and more positive changes. People are  putting up with less nonsense. In some cases it will appear as if time has stood still. This means that your mastering how to control your own environment more easily.

Our own frequency of energy in our bodies is changing rapidly and its allowing those that choose to participate in their own lives. To start to take back more of the power that they've been giving away for far to long and to stop playing the part of the victim.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net


Thursday, March 26, 2015

What If ?

Physicists in 2006 were very worried about the strength of the solar flares possibly taking down the power grids in the future. With the solar flares from the Sun going up to Gama ray strength. It wouldn't be that much of a stretch to wonder if these solar flares are responsible for flocks of birds dropping from the sky. Birds are very sensitive animals to environmental changes.

Water is a giant electrical conductor, It would stand to reason that with strong enough solar flares it might also be responsible for some of these animals washing up on shore from the Ocean. Our Oceans and Seas have very delicate Eco Systems.

There have been more people that have been reported dead and then a few days later, suddenly appearing to be alive. These individuals might have had a sensitivity energy shifts. Explaining why they were mistaken for being dead when in fact they might have just been unconscious or in a state that mimicking death.

Many individuals have passed out from the strength of the solar flare hitting the earth lately. Sometimes it might be a day later from the solar flare depending on how the flare spreads out after it connect with the Earth.

As we continue on our journey, it will be very interesting indeed to see what else comes?

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Monday, March 23, 2015

Signs Are All Around US!

Nature is giving us a lot of cues to what is coming. The birds and the bees. The lies that were published in holy books to give the religions an edge to their collection plate. The lies that the congressmen are passing through into law.

The unbelievable greed that is obvious in the Corporate arena. The leaders of countries that are getting ready for quite a tumble as reality comes thundering through to give them a reality check. There is a lot of things about to come crumbling down. The power is about to shift, those that have been down trodden are about to rise up. Their cause is about to pick up momentum.

Even our very reality is about to shift. What we once thought was reality is about to change almost on a dime. Everyone is about to take back their personal power. Those that have been dreaming, and having a hard time distinguishing dream from reality are about to find out that there is a very thin veil between the two.

Each morning it almost feels like we're awakening from sand. The dream world is becoming thinner and thinner and very hard to tell dream time from waking time. The realities are so real in both worlds that physical blows feel real in both worlds. In some regards, the dream times is a form of time machine. We can see our past lives, we can see some of our future if we pay attention.

There are also times where we have moments of what's my line; as we remember that we've seen this scene play out before in our dream. We can either keep to the script or change the lines? But think carefully, do you want to change the script or are you more  comfortable staying with the original script.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Love

Doing things that are self nurturing are wonderful ways to express your love for yourself.
Taking time to just lose yourself in doing crafts? Painting?
You start to go into a World all your own. 
These are all great expressions of Love!

Creating a meal or making a desert that your going to share with family and friends.
By putting your time and energy into the meal you are adding parts of your love into the meal.
People will remember the meal and ask for the recipe and try to recreate the energy of that meal and the personal experience that the memory invokes.

Our creations look or smell better when we add bits of ourselves with our love.
Event the simple things like drawing a bath and adding the ingredients to make the experience more personal.
The candles, the scented oils for the bath?
The herbs to help us relax.

Picking out just the right tea for that moment to create the mood.
Our clothes are an extension of ourselves, our personalities? Emotions?
All of these things are part of who we are and how we show our selves to the World.

by Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)

Saturday, November 15, 2014

A Trap Of One's Own Making

I find it very interesting that many of the banks and large corporations rather than be transparent. They choose to go down swinging which will be the cause of they're own demise. I guess, they really didn't choose to learn from the past mistakes in history. It will be interesting if the workers of these corporations and banks will choose to be survivors and reinvent themselves or choose to play the victim. It's not like these employees don't know what's going on. They can see the writing on the wall.

I see a lot of large corporations devouring smaller companies to drain the cash flow out them to keep their large appetite afloat a little while longer trying to keep their inevitable down fall at bay. This stall tactic will only work so long. The truth has a nasty way of raising it's head at the most inopportune time. The Justices that are after true justice for the people will survive. The one's that have an agenda will find that justice is a double edged sword and not a one way street.

The masses are starting to gather momentum and becoming stronger and stronger and all the injustices are starting to have more and more light shined on them. There is no escaping the truth. Those that thought that the World was their playground and the rules were for everyone else are finding that they're markers are about to be called in.

Those that knowingly did harm to the masses are going to find themselves bankrupted and their corporate veil is about to be pierced. They've hid behind that Corporate Veil for far to long will be no more. Many will go to prison and their assets frozen. Many CEO's will cry about the injustice of it all. Justices, will become very creative with the terms of their prison sentences. They will start to maximize the community service that they will have to repay to the communities that they've harmed and wildlife habitats they've destroyed.

They're descendant's will not get a free pass either; after all they directly benefited from them too.
It will be quite an interesting time in history to see all the dramas play out.

By Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net


Sunday, August 31, 2014

Seasons of Change

This year has been a unique year. The seasons are coming earlier and we had the winter from hell. It started to feel like winter would never end. This year, I lost some plants. Some plants didn't bear fruit when it usually produces. Even more positive things have been coming. I notice it more and more when I stick to my guns so to speak. When I refuse to put myself into an abusive environment, I am rewarded with a healthy work environment with positive team members.

I'm not saying to not take a job if you really need the money to meet your bills. I am saying to pick what things you can put up with in a short term if you have too. Usually what happens is after you've taken that job, another opportunity will that is more positive or with more money will show up.

Things that used to show up in the past have stopped showing up in my life. It's like the Universe has gotten the memo that I am changing and I expect positive changes in my life as well. Start by making a small list of the changes that you'd like to see in your life. You also have to make sure that you show up for your life! What does that mean? It means, that you have to participate in your life. Life doesn't happen to us. It happens, when we refuse to participate in our own lives.

The bullies that might have been in your work environment start to leave or you get offered a better job and you no longer have to be around them. Some changes will happen immediately and others will show up in baby steps. Start with changes that have been bugging you for a while. Look at it as pulling weeds in your garden or clearing out the clutter in your life.

People do learn how to treat you by how you treat yourself. If your dealing with a bully that's a different matter. In this situation, see if you can switch departments? If things are totally unbearable, start looking for another job to remove yourself out of this situation. It can be taking a long term temporary or contract position to remove yourself from a horrible situation.

I have seen the Universe respond to me faster and faster. I am getting more of the environments that I desire!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Sunday, June 29, 2014

The Most Intimate Journey

One of the best journeys you will have is getting to know yourself. Often people will say, well I'm just me.
What exactly does that mean? Most women, haven't a clue on how to answer that question. It isn't until they're married and finding themselves unhappy with they're lives. Not exactly sure where in they're lives, they aren't happy? They start to feel like they aren't even a person? Like they've some how become an accessory.

Others have fallen into the trap, where they believe that it's the responsibility of their spouse to make them happy. Which is like some story that's been perpetuated by our society. It's only when women take the time to get to know themselves on all levels. Not allowing family or friends or even spouses to judge them. That they start to find out they're likes and dislikes. They stop trying to please other people and worrying about other people's opinions that they start to grow and learn more about themselves.

They start to learn that maybe they want to be known by their name instead of Mrs so-and-so or as someone's wife. Once we fully become whole, we bring much more to the table in a marriage or career or to even our own business. This myth that your partner makes you a whole person is just that a myth. Even they need to be whole within themselves to be truly happy.

Where we got this idea that its anyone's job to make us happy? I have no idea, but people need to actually start to participate in their lives instead of trying to put it on remote control. This how our lives suddenly start to become derailed. This is also how people lose control of their finances. Only you know what makes you happy or unhappy! Sometimes we like to mix it up and add some Drama, because maybe we're bored!

It's also okay to not be nice all the time. We have emotions for a reason, think of it as a color pallet that you can play with. Sometimes, you might want to be horrible instead of sugary sweet with everyone. By allowing your emotions to not be judged all the time. Your more likely to not have a callousal explosive melt down.

Your less likely to find that a toddler has taken control of your emotions and your having a melt down at a business meeting. When we find and know ourselves, we start to get this inner calm and peace that we've been searching for most of our lives. It starts to reel in those emotional roller coaster moments in our lives.
We start to have more control and direction in our lives. Instead of life happening to us. We are happening to life!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
http://facebook.com/ravenhawkellcusa
info@ravenhawke.net

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Death

Death is another life journey. Some how over the centuries, death has some how become a villain. Instead of people looking at it as just another of life's journeys and something to be embraced. People look at it as the ultimate end, when nothing could be further from the truth. It is the ending of one chapter and the beginning of a new one.

As children we had class room experiments we had to do with meal worms. When the meal worm died it turned into a beetle and when the beetle died it turned back into a meal worm. Same with the butterfly, it metamorphosis from a Caterpillar to a butterfly. You can equate it with reincarnation. The  cycle is never ending.

You go from the living reality or dimension to another reality when you die. The soul is immortal, so even though the flesh dies the soul never will. This fear of death keeps us from realizing our true potential by making us a victim by feeding this fear.

One of the things, I know for sure is that your loved one's are constantly checking in with you. They are not locked away on the other side like hostages. They come and visit you even if they have crossed over. Even ancestors that you've never met in this life time still care about you. They know when you have been born they watch you grow. It is a very loving relationship.

They're presence is always announced. You will usually smell something that was unique to them when they were alive. Sometimes its a perfume, or maybe they smoked a cigar and you notice that smell from time to time.
These are all signs that they are around you.

That's why sometimes the fear someone has before they pass is what keeps them from crossing over. The fear that they won't be able to see they're loved one's when they're gone. This is what can keep them earth bound or make them remain a ghost. This false truth that when they die they can never come back to visit they're families.

Other cultures embrace death as a beautiful process and not something to fear. They know that loved one's are always around them and that they have crossed over. The dying are taught that when they see they're deceased relatives it is cause for celebration and not something to fear. Those relatives are there to help them cross over to the other side and teach them that this is not the end. They will always be able to check in on their families.


Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
http://www.facebook.com/ravenhawkellcusa
info@ravenhawke.net

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Creating Your Own Stage

One of the things that I started to play with in 2006 was my own reality. I would have holiday events with family. I decided before going to the event that I would not focus on old history of the player and their personalities. I would approach them as though they were a clean slate.

What I found is that when I approached them without prejudgment they responded better and our interactions were more positive. We started to have adult conversations and history started to slip away.
By the end of the evening, the people that had previously attacked me openly were now attacking new prey at these events.

I got to be the observer of this sophisticated play and enjoy the show instead of having to participate in it. This is also in "The Course of Miracles" book. I've never been drawn to read it, but then I like to do my own thing a lot.

I am enjoying my new reality with my family. It has less drama and conflict. I'm not excusing the people that behave in this destructive manner. I'm just not having to engage them as much. Next time your a little bored, you might want to give it a try. I had tried this for more than three years at these events.

I also found that other people couldn't stand some of the Drama queens at these events either. My life is getting less stressful bit by bit. I have tried this in the corporate arena as well.

This is one way that I'm usually able to bridge gaps in an organization. I come into the organization with a clean slate. I approach the departments that I'll have to work with the same courtesy. I don't listen to whose the villain or prejudge the players of the departments. I judge them from my experience with them on a daily basis. That doesn't mean there wont be jerks or bullies in the work place.

I've had a pretty successful track record on getting the departments to work well across the organization. That's one of the things that I'm the most proud of.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)

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Sunday, March 2, 2014

Fragmenting of the Soul

When a soul is so fragmented from past and present life trauma it takes more than soul retrieval to make it whole again.
The pieces can be put back together again yes, but the damage that caused the soul to fragment in the first place must also be healed.

The anger from that trauma needs to be addressed and allowed to flow. It is by allowing the anger to be just that, that the healing starts to take place and small or large pieces of the soul are allowed to heal.
When we suppress the anger it makes the situation worse, it makes the pain linger longer than is necessary.

Some times talk therapy with a trained therapist can help.
It is only when we stop judging our actions and feelings from the past as wrong.
That we can finally begin to heal.

It's like yelling at a young child to stop crying and making the situation worse.
By allowing our emotions to be, that we start to have a greater understanding of our soul and our selves.
We stop judging ourselves and allow our selves to just be.

If we are unable to make the changes in our lives that we wish to see; there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help from a therapist to help us.
Sometimes people grew up in families where mind games were always used. Making it next to impossible for them to properly read or gauge a person's actions or motives. 
Making it hard to trust anyone and further alienating themselves from society.

Where what feels normal to them is not normal to others and a clue that a person can't be trusted.
This can be very frustrating for anyone trying to heal from abuse. Especially when they are trying to break abusive cycles.

Sometimes they will meet people that are meant to be teachers to these people and sometimes these people are meant to be the teachers to others. Other times as your teaching someone you are learning from their experiences. The answers for others are sometimes the answers for yourself and your meant to listen as well.


Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc  (MN, USA)

Saturday, June 15, 2013

When A Healing Doesn't Work

It's very interesting when a healing doesn't work. Here's the thing, everyone has free will. If a person wants nothing to do with the healing, you can't shove it down their throat. A lot of times there are payoffs to an illness or disability.

People get more attention and don't have to take responsibility for living their lives when there is an illness or disability. It's like they're saying see you have to stay, you can't leave me. I can't take care of myself instead of seeing it as an opportunity for growth to concur challenges and allow their souls to grow.

Some people were disabled before their disability ever showed up. They refused to even participate in their lives. They used drugs as an excuse to avoid living. I've seen parents that are Nurses and Therapist do this to their own kids where they teach them that they aren't capable of making choices by themselves. Every chance the Universe gives their children an opportunity to learn and grow so they can become independent adults in the future. The parents rush in and make the decisions for them without even asking.

The big problem with this is that the problems get harder and harder. The lessons that these children would have learned to problem solve and build on their development has been taken away from them by a selfish and self serving adult. Think I'm being a little harsh here! These children might have been great leaders if someone would have let them try to solve their own problems instead of rushing in.

These parents need to learn to back off. You can tell your children that if they ever have a problem that you will be their for them. You can run a couple of choices on how to handle a problem. IF ASKED! Here is the Key! You need to tell them that you can offer them choices if they ask for help! Again, you are not here to make those choices for them! Do you really want to put a child in a bigger problem then they're ready for?
By allowing them to learn how to handle their own problems, you are preparing them for life.

An illness can be a way to slow someone down so they start taking care of their body and health. Some people are always on the run, they never take time for themselves. Then wonder why they got taken out by a heart attack. Cancer and tumors are wake up calls for us to start getting serious about our passions. Life is not meant to be some form of sick torture. If you have an unhappy marriage, do something about it. If you hate your job, take baby steps to find something that you love.

Serving the Twin Cities Area:

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
www.facebook.com/ravenhawkellcusa
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info@ravenhawke.net

Monday, April 15, 2013

The Merging Of Realities

These past few weeks it has been getting pretty difficult to tell reality from Dream. It feels like emerging from mud. It feels like a great effort to emerge from the dream state to the waking state.

Even this morning, I had a dream that was movie worthy. I will be writing it down sometime today. So much Drama? The characters are so realistic and they all know their lines so well. It's almost like you've walked into the middle of a play. The drama is so real, that it takes great effort to separate yourself from this reality and remain an observer. It is hard not to get sucked into this drama and participate.

It is only curiosity that helps to maintain the role of the observer. What will happen next. I even remember at one point thinking in my dream. I've seen this movie before, lets watch to see what happens next to see if I'm right. It always amazes me that I know these people in the dream. I could tell you their names their backgrounds. Who they are? Where they live? Then when I awake, its as if I have amnesia.

Penny J.
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