When a soul is so fragmented from past and present life trauma it takes more than soul retrieval to make it whole again.
The pieces can be put back together again yes, but the damage that caused the soul to fragment in the first place must also be healed.
The anger from that trauma needs to be addressed and allowed to flow. It is by allowing the anger to be just that, that the healing starts to take place and small or large pieces of the soul are allowed to heal.
When we suppress the anger it makes the situation worse, it makes the pain linger longer than is necessary.
Some times talk therapy with a trained therapist can help.
It is only when we stop judging our actions and feelings from the past as wrong.
That we can finally begin to heal.
It's like yelling at a young child to stop crying and making the situation worse.
By allowing our emotions to be, that we start to have a greater understanding of our soul and our selves.
We stop judging ourselves and allow our selves to just be.
If we are unable to make the changes in our lives that we wish to see; there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help from a therapist to help us.
Sometimes people grew up in families where mind games were always used. Making it next to impossible for them to properly read or gauge a person's actions or motives.
Making it hard to trust anyone and further alienating themselves from society.
Where what feels normal to them is not normal to others and a clue that a person can't be trusted.
This can be very frustrating for anyone trying to heal from abuse. Especially when they are trying to break abusive cycles.
Sometimes they will meet people that are meant to be teachers to these people and sometimes these people are meant to be the teachers to others. Other times as your teaching someone you are learning from their experiences. The answers for others are sometimes the answers for yourself and your meant to listen as well.
Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
