Not by Accident

 It's pretty interesting that now it's coming out that most of the US male heart throbs in the movie industry were really gay. Is it any wonder that young women, when they were looking for their future spouse were drawn to gay men unconsciously. Role models play some pretty powerful roles in people's lives; whether they're aware of it or not?

Especially, when these women keep repeating these relationships. Trying to break a pattern like this could take some time; when your not even sure where to begin. It can be hard to wrap your mind around the possibility that an industry could be so cruel and calculating as to have planned it from the start with a much darker agenda.

One of the key objectives, seems to be focussed on bringing disfunction into the family unit. In as many ways as possible to destroy as many individuals lives as possible. It likes to normalize the alcoholic, the batter, the child abuser; until you don't know what is healthy any longer. 

You might just think it's your family or a certain generation. In some cases it's been going on so long; it gets hard to pin point where it all began. Just when your starting to heal your family and try to ensure the next generation doesn't repeat all of this. There are forces, behind the scenes trying to set it in motion all over again.

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)

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Surviving Abuse

People who have gone through abuse as a child or an adult will have to face the healing process eventually. Some people label this PTSD or Bi-Polar. This happens to even members of our military. The healing process is unique to each individual. That's because each person has different breaking point. In some cases, it fragments the soul of the individual. Part of this process is releasing shame. Depending on the age of the individual who experienced the abuse and the type of abuse. There is psychological abuse (Mind Games) or in the military a psychological warfare!

Sexual or physical abuse (battery). These are all the ugly crimes that are committed by our society. Rich, poor, middle class it does not matter. It is a sick tradition that is passed down from the church, military, your own family or community. Some people can deal with this in a support group. Some need a one on one session with a therapist. Others try to deal with it on their own terms. It is about facing your own demons on your own terms. It is about taking back your power and feeling through the many layers of pain, sorrow and anger! There will be good days and bad. Once you've taken back your power. You might feel at peace. It's about taking back your power and not hurting yourself or others.

If your constantly feeling triggers to situations that you experienced as a child or an adult. Try to get counseling so you can try to diffuse the situation. Counselors will usually have tools to help you take back your personal power so you have control in your life again. Past life experiences can be similar to this too. Depending on how you died and if you experienced anger when you died. When you are fully healed. You can be in the same room with this person and feel nothing. This is not about forgiveness. I don't subscribe to that bullshit. Just be real with yourself.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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The Lies

I think it's interesting that it's just come out that the CDC knew about the effects of thimerosal. One of the ingredients of the vaccines, that all children are required to have. The age group that it is impacting are the new wave of children being born on this planet that are extremely psychic. This is definitely an in your face type of news that is meant to wake up people that still believe that their Government is looking out for them.

These vaccines have caused a lot of these children to develop autism. More and more of the insanity is coming to the surface. All the corruption and greed are being exposed on a daily basis. Those that want to continue to sleep walk through their lives are finding the realities are coming hard and fast knocking on their doors. Life is about living and actively participating in your life. That means being awake for your life, not allowing others to make decisions for you and later playing the victim.

It's time to fire this so called Government that isn't working for us but has its own private agenda. I'm more than sure that we can  find enough cells in those private prisons to house all of the corrupt participants. I don't know what could be a more horrific betrayal than to find out some agency was deliberately targeting your children. The other previous incident of  9 Trillion that went missing from the Federal Reserve. How does that just go walking out the door. These people need to be held accountable.

People are sick and tired of picking up the tab financially for Agencies and Government that abuse their trust. People are going to start fighting back and suing these agencies for financial restitution and putting these criminals behind bars where they belong.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
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Fragmenting of the Soul

When a soul is so fragmented from past and present life trauma it takes more than soul retrieval to make it whole again.

The pieces can be put back together again yes, but the damage that caused the soul to fragment in the first place must also be healed.

The anger from that trauma needs to be addressed and allowed to flow. It is by allowing the anger to be just that, that the healing starts to take place and small or large pieces of the soul are allowed to heal.

When we suppress the anger it makes the situation worse, it makes the pain linger longer than is necessary.

Some times talk therapy with a trained therapist can help.

It is only when we stop judging our actions and feelings from the past as wrong.

That we can finally begin to heal.

It's like yelling at a young child to stop crying and making the situation worse.

By allowing our emotions to be, that we start to have a greater understanding of our soul and our selves.

We stop judging ourselves and allow our selves to just be.

If we are unable to make the changes in our lives that we wish to see; there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help from a therapist to help us.

Sometimes people grew up in families where mind games were always used. Making it next to impossible for them to properly read or gauge a person's actions or motives. 

Making it hard to trust anyone and further alienating themselves from society.

Where what feels normal to them is not normal to others and a clue that a person can't be trusted.

This can be very frustrating for anyone trying to heal from abuse. Especially when they are trying to break abusive cycles.

Sometimes they will meet people that are meant to be teachers to these people and sometimes these people are meant to be the teachers to others. Other times as your teaching someone you are learning from their experiences. The answers for others are sometimes the answers for yourself and your meant to listen as well.

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc  (MN, USA)

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Family

Family can mean different things to different people. To some it is the actual family your are born into; to others it means people that are of your own choosing.

The Holidays seem to bring out the best and the worst in these domestic units. It's almost like Jeckly & Hyde come to life. I'm not going to continue to write some sappy drivel about loving them anyway. That simply wouldn't be honoring yourself.

What I do propose is to pick through the ones that simply get on your nerves beyond reason and not answering the phone when they call. It will be a win for you, and it becomes a win for them learning to stand on their own two feet.

This is not to be mean. Some family members grew up in an era where it was simply exceptable to be verbally abusive. They call it that now but it was never addressed in their time. They just knew that when they were around people like that they didn't like them very much. This is one way of breaking a cycle by not pointing fingers and telling your relatives that they're abusive and need therapy.

This will only bring on a whole new argument in the family drama. After all who needs more drama in their life. If you wanted that you could simply watch TV if that is actually being watched any more. It starts to make what family functions you do attend a little more enjoyable. Believe it or not you'll actually start to feel more calmer by not having to deal with certain family members.

These are only suggestions. You have to take back what you perceive as your family hamony however you see best. For those of us that have decided to throw the whole lot out and start fresh with people we consider family. We've already found our little peace of heaven. Hopefully this will make you laugh. If not you might need to relax more.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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