Relationships

It is part of growth that we will sometimes look back on relationships and see our own part in the drama of that relationship. We need to learn and look forward to how we've grown and change because of those relationships. Since relationships are all around us, in business, family and personal.
It is only when we refuse to grow that relationships can become stagnant.

As conscious beings we are constantly learning new things; from books, other people, media or on the job. This is how we evolve. In some relationships there is that tug of war of personalities. Sometimes of trying to be heard or understood. When there is that constant drive to shove your truth down someone else's throat and constantly win; then you've already lost. You've lost because your no longer hearing the other person or respecting their point of view.

Relationships are about mutual respect and actually hearing each other and not talking over them. Sometimes it seems like listening skills is a lost art. Relationships are the largest growth opportunities.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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Fragmenting of the Soul

When a soul is so fragmented from past and present life trauma it takes more than soul retrieval to make it whole again.

The pieces can be put back together again yes, but the damage that caused the soul to fragment in the first place must also be healed.

The anger from that trauma needs to be addressed and allowed to flow. It is by allowing the anger to be just that, that the healing starts to take place and small or large pieces of the soul are allowed to heal.

When we suppress the anger it makes the situation worse, it makes the pain linger longer than is necessary.

Some times talk therapy with a trained therapist can help.

It is only when we stop judging our actions and feelings from the past as wrong.

That we can finally begin to heal.

It's like yelling at a young child to stop crying and making the situation worse.

By allowing our emotions to be, that we start to have a greater understanding of our soul and our selves.

We stop judging ourselves and allow our selves to just be.

If we are unable to make the changes in our lives that we wish to see; there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help from a therapist to help us.

Sometimes people grew up in families where mind games were always used. Making it next to impossible for them to properly read or gauge a person's actions or motives. 

Making it hard to trust anyone and further alienating themselves from society.

Where what feels normal to them is not normal to others and a clue that a person can't be trusted.

This can be very frustrating for anyone trying to heal from abuse. Especially when they are trying to break abusive cycles.

Sometimes they will meet people that are meant to be teachers to these people and sometimes these people are meant to be the teachers to others. Other times as your teaching someone you are learning from their experiences. The answers for others are sometimes the answers for yourself and your meant to listen as well.

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc  (MN, USA)

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Sign Posts-

The Universe is an amazing place. It tips you off to when something isn't quite right. Sometimes it shows up as a glitch that seems to happen when you do something very ordinary. Other times it can stop you like an invisible brick wall. It is through these signs that we are given a chance to reaccess if something is wrong or not.

I don't even question if something goes wrong. I change my direction. I am using the Universe as a guidance system. It is allowing me to have the best outcomes for me. Most of the time I am saving money or protecting myself from something that is coming in the future.  That's how the Universe works.

Instead of fighting your way through life it suddenly becomes easier when you listen and observe the signs.
Sometimes it is nature itself that are the signs. Sometimes it is relationships that are the brick wall as a warning.

It is only by getting into your own vibe that you learn how to follow the signs. It becomes easier, almost like magick. It is only when we don't listen that life becomes a struggle.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (Minnesota, USA)
www.facebook.com/ravenhawkellcusa
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net