Saturday, November 15, 2014

A Trap Of One's Own Making

I find it very interesting that many of the banks and large corporations rather than be transparent. They choose to go down swinging which will be the cause of they're own demise. I guess, they really didn't choose to learn from the past mistakes in history. It will be interesting if the workers of these corporations and banks will choose to be survivors and reinvent themselves or choose to play the victim. It's not like these employees don't know what's going on. They can see the writing on the wall.

I see a lot of large corporations devouring smaller companies to drain the cash flow out them to keep their large appetite afloat a little while longer trying to keep their inevitable down fall at bay. This stall tactic will only work so long. The truth has a nasty way of raising it's head at the most inopportune time. The Justices that are after true justice for the people will survive. The one's that have an agenda will find that justice is a double edged sword and not a one way street.

The masses are starting to gather momentum and becoming stronger and stronger and all the injustices are starting to have more and more light shined on them. There is no escaping the truth. Those that thought that the World was their playground and the rules were for everyone else are finding that they're markers are about to be called in.

Those that knowingly did harm to the masses are going to find themselves bankrupted and their corporate veil is about to be pierced. They've hid behind that Corporate Veil for far to long will be no more. Many will go to prison and their assets frozen. Many CEO's will cry about the injustice of it all. Justices, will become very creative with the terms of their prison sentences. They will start to maximize the community service that they will have to repay to the communities that they've harmed and wildlife habitats they've destroyed.

They're descendant's will not get a free pass either; after all they directly benefited from them too.
It will be quite an interesting time in history to see all the dramas play out.

By Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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Sunday, August 31, 2014

Seasons of Change

This year has been a unique year. The seasons are coming earlier and we had the winter from hell. It started to feel like winter would never end. This year, I lost some plants. Some plants didn't bear fruit when it usually produces. Even more positive things have been coming. I notice it more and more when I stick to my guns so to speak. When I refuse to put myself into an abusive environment, I am rewarded with a healthy work environment with positive team members.

I'm not saying to not take a job if you really need the money to meet your bills. I am saying to pick what things you can put up with in a short term if you have too. Usually what happens is after you've taken that job, another opportunity will that is more positive or with more money will show up.

Things that used to show up in the past have stopped showing up in my life. It's like the Universe has gotten the memo that I am changing and I expect positive changes in my life as well. Start by making a small list of the changes that you'd like to see in your life. You also have to make sure that you show up for your life! What does that mean? It means, that you have to participate in your life. Life doesn't happen to us. It happens, when we refuse to participate in our own lives.

The bullies that might have been in your work environment start to leave or you get offered a better job and you no longer have to be around them. Some changes will happen immediately and others will show up in baby steps. Start with changes that have been bugging you for a while. Look at it as pulling weeds in your garden or clearing out the clutter in your life.

People do learn how to treat you by how you treat yourself. If your dealing with a bully that's a different matter. In this situation, see if you can switch departments? If things are totally unbearable, start looking for another job to remove yourself out of this situation. It can be taking a long term temporary or contract position to remove yourself from a horrible situation.

I have seen the Universe respond to me faster and faster. I am getting more of the environments that I desire!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Sunday, June 29, 2014

The Most Intimate Journey

One of the best journeys you will have is getting to know yourself. Often people will say, well I'm just me.
What exactly does that mean? Most women, haven't a clue on how to answer that question. It isn't until they're married and finding themselves unhappy with they're lives. Not exactly sure where in they're lives, they aren't happy? They start to feel like they aren't even a person? Like they've some how become an accessory.

Others have fallen into the trap, where they believe that it's the responsibility of their spouse to make them happy. Which is like some story that's been perpetuated by our society. It's only when women take the time to get to know themselves on all levels. Not allowing family or friends or even spouses to judge them. That they start to find out they're likes and dislikes. They stop trying to please other people and worrying about other people's opinions that they start to grow and learn more about themselves.

They start to learn that maybe they want to be known by their name instead of Mrs so-and-so or as someone's wife. Once we fully become whole, we bring much more to the table in a marriage or career or to even our own business. This myth that your partner makes you a whole person is just that a myth. Even they need to be whole within themselves to be truly happy.

Where we got this idea that its anyone's job to make us happy? I have no idea, but people need to actually start to participate in their lives instead of trying to put it on remote control. This how our lives suddenly start to become derailed. This is also how people lose control of their finances. Only you know what makes you happy or unhappy! Sometimes we like to mix it up and add some Drama, because maybe we're bored!

It's also okay to not be nice all the time. We have emotions for a reason, think of it as a color pallet that you can play with. Sometimes, you might want to be horrible instead of sugary sweet with everyone. By allowing your emotions to not be judged all the time. Your more likely to not have a callousal explosive melt down.

Your less likely to find that a toddler has taken control of your emotions and your having a melt down at a business meeting. When we find and know ourselves, we start to get this inner calm and peace that we've been searching for most of our lives. It starts to reel in those emotional roller coaster moments in our lives.
We start to have more control and direction in our lives. Instead of life happening to us. We are happening to life!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
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Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Death

Death is another life journey. Some how over the centuries, death has some how become a villain. Instead of people looking at it as just another of life's journeys and something to be embraced. People look at it as the ultimate end, when nothing could be further from the truth. It is the ending of one chapter and the beginning of a new one.

As children we had class room experiments we had to do with meal worms. When the meal worm died it turned into a beetle and when the beetle died it turned back into a meal worm. Same with the butterfly, it metamorphosis from a Caterpillar to a butterfly. You can equate it with reincarnation. The  cycle is never ending.

You go from the living reality or dimension to another reality when you die. The soul is immortal, so even though the flesh dies the soul never will. This fear of death keeps us from realizing our true potential by making us a victim by feeding this fear.

One of the things, I know for sure is that your loved one's are constantly checking in with you. They are not locked away on the other side like hostages. They come and visit you even if they have crossed over. Even ancestors that you've never met in this life time still care about you. They know when you have been born they watch you grow. It is a very loving relationship.

They're presence is always announced. You will usually smell something that was unique to them when they were alive. Sometimes its a perfume, or maybe they smoked a cigar and you notice that smell from time to time.
These are all signs that they are around you.

That's why sometimes the fear someone has before they pass is what keeps them from crossing over. The fear that they won't be able to see they're loved one's when they're gone. This is what can keep them earth bound or make them remain a ghost. This false truth that when they die they can never come back to visit they're families.

Other cultures embrace death as a beautiful process and not something to fear. They know that loved one's are always around them and that they have crossed over. The dying are taught that when they see they're deceased relatives it is cause for celebration and not something to fear. Those relatives are there to help them cross over to the other side and teach them that this is not the end. They will always be able to check in on their families.


Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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Sunday, April 6, 2014

Creating Your Own Stage

One of the things that I started to play with in 2006 was my own reality. I would have holiday events with family. I decided before going to the event that I would not focus on old history of the player and their personalities. I would approach them as though they were a clean slate.

What I found is that when I approached them without prejudgment they responded better and our interactions were more positive. We started to have adult conversations and history started to slip away.
By the end of the evening, the people that had previously attacked me openly were now attacking new prey at these events.

I got to be the observer of this sophisticated play and enjoy the show instead of having to participate in it. This is also in "The Course of Miracles" book. I've never been drawn to read it, but then I like to do my own thing a lot.

I am enjoying my new reality with my family. It has less drama and conflict. I'm not excusing the people that behave in this destructive manner. I'm just not having to engage them as much. Next time your a little bored, you might want to give it a try. I had tried this for more than three years at these events.

I also found that other people couldn't stand some of the Drama queens at these events either. My life is getting less stressful bit by bit. I have tried this in the corporate arena as well.

This is one way that I'm usually able to bridge gaps in an organization. I come into the organization with a clean slate. I approach the departments that I'll have to work with the same courtesy. I don't listen to whose the villain or prejudge the players of the departments. I judge them from my experience with them on a daily basis. That doesn't mean there wont be jerks or bullies in the work place.

I've had a pretty successful track record on getting the departments to work well across the organization. That's one of the things that I'm the most proud of.

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)

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Sunday, March 2, 2014

Fragmenting of the Soul

When a soul is so fragmented from past and present life trauma it takes more than soul retrieval to make it whole again.
The pieces can be put back together again yes, but the damage that caused the soul to fragment in the first place must also be healed.

The anger from that trauma needs to be addressed and allowed to flow. It is by allowing the anger to be just that, that the healing starts to take place and small or large pieces of the soul are allowed to heal.
When we suppress the anger it makes the situation worse, it makes the pain linger longer than is necessary.

Some times talk therapy with a trained therapist can help.
It is only when we stop judging our actions and feelings from the past as wrong.
That we can finally begin to heal.

It's like yelling at a young child to stop crying and making the situation worse.
By allowing our emotions to be, that we start to have a greater understanding of our soul and our selves.
We stop judging ourselves and allow our selves to just be.

If we are unable to make the changes in our lives that we wish to see; there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help from a therapist to help us.
Sometimes people grew up in families where mind games were always used. Making it next to impossible for them to properly read or gauge a person's actions or motives. 
Making it hard to trust anyone and further alienating themselves from society.

Where what feels normal to them is not normal to others and a clue that a person can't be trusted.
This can be very frustrating for anyone trying to heal from abuse. Especially when they are trying to break abusive cycles.

Sometimes they will meet people that are meant to be teachers to these people and sometimes these people are meant to be the teachers to others. Other times as your teaching someone you are learning from their experiences. The answers for others are sometimes the answers for yourself and your meant to listen as well.


Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc  (MN, USA)

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Empaths

One of the most draining thing is to be surrounded by people that feed off of other people's energy.
They tend to leave people that are empaths needing to take a break from humanity in order to recharge.

Some not all of these types are usually extroverts that are the energy vampires. Jobs like customer service and sales are usually not the best jobs for empaths since they will only last a short time in those fields. Empaths usually will burn out from this kind contact with the public in 6 to 9 mos.

Empaths usually do better in jobs that they can do solo or remain with others like themselves. They can be mistaken for being introverts when they are in a group since they tend to act very social. They usually hang out in such fields as technology since they are naturals at reading energy.

They do wonderful in the healing arts where it is holistic healing or alternative medicine. They use they're senses to feel energy around their clients. Feng Shui is another way empaths can feel the energy of their clients home to determine part of what is wrong energetically.

More and more of them are being born in the 21st century. They can read energy and feel energy that is rolling back from the future to the present. These are some of their skills.

Penny J.

Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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