Nothing kills a company faster than toxic people with their control freak tendencies. They suffocate anything or anyone that could bring change that could bring improvement to the organization. They pick fights with co-workers or demean the people that have to report to them.
This stagnation starts to erode the foundation of the company. People don't want to work there because its so abusive. Because the organization is not creative or innovative. Contracts with clients can start to unravel. The relationships start to erode because needs of the individuals and organizations are at different points.
When the agendas of others derail the organizations growth. The company can start to unravel at a faster and faster rate. Its like driving a car with no driver. Companies that had good intentions for its clients and employees can die quickly if it doesn't keep destructive individuals in check. The higher these individuals are in the organization, the more damage they are capable of doing.
These people are parasites for they create fear and destruction where ever they go. In their minds they are all important. Anyone that gets in their way, is viewed as an adversary to be eliminated at all costs. The companies that are the breeding place for this behavior are large corporations. It's much harder to discover them in such a huge dinosaur. In smaller organizations, its easier to spot them. Almost like spotting a tick on your body.
For the health and the pulse of a company it is good to be diligent about getting rid of toxic people in your organization to limit the damage they can do to the relationships involved. Other companies can become toxic when you have to many of certain type of employee. Lawyers and doctors come to mind. They have a God complex, they think that only they have a right to speak. Anyone else is beneath them. They bring to the table a master, slave mentality. Any time anyone deems to speak up or suggest a different idea. They are fired on the spot. They enjoy and get off on their abuse of power. They are the ultimate bully. Their credentials have gone to their head. They think it equates to their value to the company and the World.
These misuses of power need to be reeled in to make sure a company isn't sunk from within. Foreigners that bring their baggage is another problem too. If they are from a cast system. Guess what they can't think outside of the box of their own culture, unless they were raised outside of that culture. They can then bring new ideas to the table. If they were raised with prejudices towards certain genders then your on a sinking ship. Their preoccupation with firing or eliminating that gender from their work teams can be like a disease attacking the body.
It's very interesting that most companies that say they are transparent are the opposite of what they say. Companies that don't make those claims, are usually having a healthier environment or the managers are trying to maintain a sane environment for their employees.
Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net
It feels very exciting and fresh!It almost has a crisp feel to it. I'm waiting for the next chapter to be written. Each one of us is part of history and yet we never think of it that way. We just go about our day. It seems that only when we read what has been written. What we've experienced that we question it and say how did they get that?
Showing posts with label toxic. Show all posts
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Sunday, January 13, 2019
Monday, November 13, 2017
Detox Your Life
It might feel like you need to do some house cleaning in your house as well as your life. When was the last time you paid attention to whats stressing you out. Sometimes it about just cleaning out closets and sometimes its about coming out of the closet. Whatever it is that needs to be changed. Just dig in and don't look back!
People are one of the things that people have a hard time to let go of. We have a lot more technology in our lives so it makes it easier to release toxic people in our lives. Caller id is a wonderful thing. If your not good at confrontation, this might be a saving grace for you. Blocking calls from those people that aren't in your highest good is a nice luxury too.
As we start to clean up the messes in our lives, things start to become calmer. We are able to breath more freely in our lives. There is this wonderful quiet calmness. Getting back into nature either by taking a walk, visiting a conservatory or even a zoo. Those drama queens that should really be on stage instead of our lives. Our life becomes lighter and more comfortable.
It's important to be very selfish about your time and personal space. Take the time to enjoy your life and nurture yourself. Always check that your boundaries are in place, be it with friends, co-workers or even family. There has been change in the air ever since September and its been picking up steam as we enter November and get closer to the end of the year. It's almost like nature is asking us to get out our broom and shake out the dust in our lives and home.
Start to notice the things that are asking for change. Jobs? Home? Relationships? Notice the energy all around you more. Is it heavy or light or just calm? Play more in your life, we often think that play is for children. Nothing could be further from the truth. It's that play that allows us to create and think better. It allows us to be us! Whatever us is? A lot of people have lost touch with who they are? It's by taking some quiet time and just being that we begin to find out.
Penny J (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
People are one of the things that people have a hard time to let go of. We have a lot more technology in our lives so it makes it easier to release toxic people in our lives. Caller id is a wonderful thing. If your not good at confrontation, this might be a saving grace for you. Blocking calls from those people that aren't in your highest good is a nice luxury too.
As we start to clean up the messes in our lives, things start to become calmer. We are able to breath more freely in our lives. There is this wonderful quiet calmness. Getting back into nature either by taking a walk, visiting a conservatory or even a zoo. Those drama queens that should really be on stage instead of our lives. Our life becomes lighter and more comfortable.
It's important to be very selfish about your time and personal space. Take the time to enjoy your life and nurture yourself. Always check that your boundaries are in place, be it with friends, co-workers or even family. There has been change in the air ever since September and its been picking up steam as we enter November and get closer to the end of the year. It's almost like nature is asking us to get out our broom and shake out the dust in our lives and home.
Start to notice the things that are asking for change. Jobs? Home? Relationships? Notice the energy all around you more. Is it heavy or light or just calm? Play more in your life, we often think that play is for children. Nothing could be further from the truth. It's that play that allows us to create and think better. It allows us to be us! Whatever us is? A lot of people have lost touch with who they are? It's by taking some quiet time and just being that we begin to find out.
Penny J (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
Friday, November 10, 2017
The Big Disconnect
It amazes me when someone has no clue about whats going on with the economy. Some of this will depend on your income. If your retired? Still in the work force? I recently ran into a woman and she was clueless about people's situations and even the economy. She had this idea that people were in these situations of having to work more than one to two jobs because they were living beyond their means.
This is the smug belief that people shouldn't try to better themselves. They should except a certain level of income based on the narrow minded belief of others. The reality is that most of these people were not living above their means. Now they are having to work more than two jobs just to maintain.
I don't know if it's an age thing with some of these people or a generation thing with this judging others? It does remind me of the bucket of crabs stories.
I don't know where this sick idea comes from to try to drag down others who want more? I'm not going to say its a human thing. I think its a sick thing, human not so much. If you have confidence in yourself. You aren't as inclined to step on other people's dreams. The dream crushers are usually toxic waste. This is one of the reasons that I keep people like this away from me. Some people have them in their family and dread visiting them.
One of the things about the economy is that effected every industry globally. No one that worked in these global industries was at fault. If anything there were a lot of casualties in the fall out. Some have recovered, many are still in recovery or survival mode. There is still distrust in the stock market and retirement accounts.
It's still interesting to see how everything will shake out in the long run. A lot of people feel that the people that were prosecuted were not punished enough. Even their families got of easily. Their assets were not seized to make restitution for the crimes they committed. Other countries are still just trying to survive as their economies are limping along.
Penny J (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
This is the smug belief that people shouldn't try to better themselves. They should except a certain level of income based on the narrow minded belief of others. The reality is that most of these people were not living above their means. Now they are having to work more than two jobs just to maintain.
I don't know if it's an age thing with some of these people or a generation thing with this judging others? It does remind me of the bucket of crabs stories.
I don't know where this sick idea comes from to try to drag down others who want more? I'm not going to say its a human thing. I think its a sick thing, human not so much. If you have confidence in yourself. You aren't as inclined to step on other people's dreams. The dream crushers are usually toxic waste. This is one of the reasons that I keep people like this away from me. Some people have them in their family and dread visiting them.
One of the things about the economy is that effected every industry globally. No one that worked in these global industries was at fault. If anything there were a lot of casualties in the fall out. Some have recovered, many are still in recovery or survival mode. There is still distrust in the stock market and retirement accounts.
It's still interesting to see how everything will shake out in the long run. A lot of people feel that the people that were prosecuted were not punished enough. Even their families got of easily. Their assets were not seized to make restitution for the crimes they committed. Other countries are still just trying to survive as their economies are limping along.
Penny J (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
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