Life's Journey

I've noticed more and more positive changes in my life, when I decided to do a personal house cleaning. I looked at personal relationships and those include family members. I decided if by a certain time line and it was about two years out. If those people hadn't grown and wanted to remain petty. I was cutting those people out of my life.

I was very direct with one of my aunts and told her she could either be part of my life or not? She was a little shocked, but she sort of understood where I was coming from. I wasn't going to be dragged down by anyone and that included my family members. I have never regretted that decision. I have moved forward in my personal life and my job relationships.

There have been big shifts in my work environment, I no longer meet people that are out to bully other people. The Universe will give you tests, where there might be a job that you need but the trade off would be working with a co-worker who is a bully. I have worked in such terrible environments in the past. I made a decision long ago that I would not work in a department or a company like that. These type of environments are very bad for your health.

I have noticed that when I stood my ground. The next work opportunity was very different and more positive. I enjoyed everyone that I worked with. My boss was very nice and relaxed. I've had some wonderful managers to work for. The best one's for me were more relaxed and laid back. I've also brought more positive things into my life that replaced the negative things. When you shift one thing, other things start to follow.

I started to have less drama in my life. I actually love my life, because it's on my terms. That doesn't mean that everything is always going to be lovely.  When things are starting to go to shit, know that there is a house cleaning underway. You will start to see more good things coming in when the things that you need to get rid of are removed. The bigger the shift, the bigger the gifts!

So when your life is really turned upside down then know that the gifts are coming and they will be huge. I have also noticed that in all of my environments that I meet people that need my gifts. I might know something that will help them heal. Sometimes they need to see a doctor but don't know it. Sometimes they need to make diet changes. I 've been in a lot of environments where a co-worker is going to have a heart attack or has cancer. I might suggest that they see a doctor to avoid a condition if its avoidable.

Even in the times when I feel like I'm not giving readings or healings. I am doing pro-bono work in some of my day jobs when my business is having its down times.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Conversations Left Unsaid

There have been many times that I've wanted to have a conversation with someone later on. Only to find that later never came because the other person died before I could have that conversation. People think that because someone is younger than someone else that they will out live them to have that conversation later on. This is never the case.

The thing is that you wanted to have the conversation with them because you wanted their perspective that no one else could give. It might have been about a past event that happened before you were ever born. These are personal conversations that we can't just have with anyone. This happened with a cousin who died quite quickly, so I was unable to ask her about a trauma that had happened to my great-grandmother. It happened to my best friends brother who committed suicide.

When these thoughts come it's best to talk to them that moment to schedule a time to have these conversations. You never know what's just waiting around the corner.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Time Is An Illusion

Many of us are having a lot more craziness in our lives. It does seem like time is speeding up more and more . Some of it feels like its coming from outside our planet. With the solar system speeding up more and more it feels like we are experiencing the fall out from it.

Most of us are feeling more mentally and physically exhausted. When you wake up in the morning, it feels like the the sun and the time are not in sync. Like the Sunrise is running faster than the time on the clock. When it comes to our evenings. It feels like the Sunset has switched places in the evening. The time on the clocks is later than what the sunset looks like.

I've also been noticing that it seems like certain people are having a harder time staying in the Corporate arena. The time frame between employment and unemployment seems like it's shorter for some and much longer for others. It's almost like the Universe is stepping in and saying your time is coming to a close in the Corporate arena and your time in your own business is starting to open up more and more.

There seems to be more people transitioning from the mainstream to the spiritual journey.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

When It's Time to Slow Down

People often grumble about how they're not getting any of the things they want in life. How they're so  stressed out. When you are continually having accidents or health drama. It's the Universes way of saying that you need to learn how to play as hard as you work.

Too many people are workaholics, because of our current economy or they are chasing money in every direction. When we chase something, doesn't it usually run? So why should your dreams or money be any different. When you are actually having fun, things start to come to you more effortlessly.

You start to see less drama in your life. You start to relax more which makes money and dreams want to hang out with you more. When is the last time you went without a TV, computer, cellphone or radio being on? Try to go half a day on the weekends without any of these devices being turned on? Are you more stressed or less stressed? At first you might be more freaked out than anything else. Try doing this for a month and start to see if your feeling more at peace.

Start going camping or visiting a park if the camping thing isn't for you. Start to see how calming the park is? Preferably not on a Holiday! Even visiting a Conservatory can be very relaxing. Whens the last time you enjoyed real food and the people in your life. Where you actually sat down and talked to each other unaccompanied by electronic devices. Did you taste the food or was it kind of a blur.

When people break bones in weird freak accidents it does tend to make you slow down. Here's the thing though you dream that you've been chasing for so long might be right around the corner and if you hadn't had that accident you might never have been able to finally get that dream. Sometimes that's the only way you would have met that person?

Money and our dreams find us when we're finally ready to slow down. This is the hardest thing for people to hear who are very action oriented. It isn't that they're afraid to participate in their own lives, they just have a problem letting life catch up to them.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Allowing Your Children To Be Who They're Meant To Be!

I've met many parents, who are dream crushers of their children. They are so focused on their children being successful that they never listen to the interests of their children. Our World is always changing, and no one is 100% sure where the careers or jobs will go tomorrow.

Something that seemed silly, might be huge money maker in the future. Being miserable in a job that you hate just to pay the bills can be incredibly draining mentally, physically and emotionally. When you are really happy in your job it really doesn't seem like work. It just flows effortlessly from the individuals and it touches others in the way its meant too.

No one has a right to expect another person to live their life for someone else. I remember someone I worked with wanted her son to become a programmer rather than a game designer. She was so focused on her own point of view that she couldn't see her son being successful as a game designer. I remember saying to her that she didn't have a right to force her goals on her son when that might not be his passion. The thing is that we all contribute to society in different ways and by trying to control another person you are stripping of their right to have free will.

Imagine someone saying to Benjamin Franklin, now don't try to figure out electricity you'll only look stupid and get burned! I'm sure Benjamin Franklin didn't have a lot of people cheering him on in the beginning.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
 

Are You Happy or Stressed Out?

If your continually having dreams of dread before your have to return to work the next day? Sunday night is usually the most telling. It's that sense of dread that slowly starts to build up, then by Sunday night you could almost cut it with a knife. It might be time to take stock of what makes you happy and what's stressing your out?

Is it the work itself? Your co-workers? The environment? Start to make some changes in your life. Once you've made those changes. See how things feel? Are you happier or still stressed out. By slowly pin pointing what is making your happy and what is not. You will be taking steps to have more control of your own life.

Pay attention to what is relaxing and enjoyable to you. Not everyone likes to hangout with people. Does this make you anti-social? No it just means that those types of activities are not relaxing to you. Do certain people stress you out and other people don't. It might be time to find out who your tribe is! Some people are extroverts (they get energy by being around people). Introverts get exhausted being around people all the time. Some people are in the middle and need some down time and some time being around crowds.

Are you a workaholic and need to start  taking scheduled relaxation time, so you can have more work life balance in your life. Sometimes we get so used to being a hamster on the wheel that we don't know what it actually feels like to relax.

By turning off the news and cell phones, it is a step to reclaiming your personal time. Caller ID is the best source for screening your calls. It's always a good thing to stop answering your phone and start to learn to tune out time wasters. Some are people, telemarketers. Boundaries are a good thing to establish, it is a good way to re stake your claim to your personal time. You never need to apologize for being protective of your down time.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net

Dreams

Dreams are very interesting things. They bring reality into full focus, when your just too busy to pay attention. It's almost like a compass that is there to steer you back on course when you've lost your way.

It allows you to realize when your deeply unhappy in your current situation. It brings up that anxiety and fear that we sometimes don't have time to face. It also allows us to realize when hope is right around the corner.

This is how inventors solve problems when they run into a wall when trying to work out a process in their invention.

It allows us to have a break from stress in our lives. It gives warnings that maybe it's time to change your course and start something new.

Sometimes it gives us a quick preview of the future and when the time comes. It's time for you to remember "What's Your Line."  You will either remember what you said in your dream or you will be forced to bunt and just wing it.

This is the time when the Universe communicates with us the most. We are at our most open and receptive moment.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net