Sunday, May 19, 2019

Codependence and Enabling

Many people think  that their doing a good thing by making excuses for people's bad behavior and lack of responsibility. Unfortunately, nothing could be further from the truth. You prolonging that person being stuck and dis empowered.

They are not doing the work to grow on any level. You are in fact treating them as a child and allowing them to stay stuck and without solutions longer. When people are not held accountable for their actions their life starts to stagnate.

It never ceases to amaze me how many people are completely selfish in their quest to not rock the boat and make excuses. It feels like we're living in the dark ages and not an advanced society. We have so many resources all around us that there really is no excuse to prolong the suffering for everyone.

Empowerment is saying that I believe a person can change if they choose. If they don't know about the resources available to them. Providing them the information so they can choose to get help from those resources. It's about making choices to leave the situation when a person chooses to stay the same and continue down a destructive path.

Sometimes it isn't until people choose to stop watching the destructive behaviors of others. That change starts to happen. It is about respect and boundaries.  Once those are established, so much change starts to happen  for everyone. Miracles and  growth start to happen for everyone. The journey starts to get easier and the path becomes much smoother.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
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Sunday, May 5, 2019

Signs Are Alround

People ask me how do you know if it's a sign. Well when was the last time you stopped watching TV or movies. Take a week to disconnect from the Internet, cellphones if your able. You might start to notice that signs come in the form of insects, animals and birds. All you have to do is pay attention.

I had a crow try to get my attention yesterday. Once it got it, it moved to another tree and then made some more cawing and then flew off. This morning, I got another message when hawk flew by as I was leaving the house. Once you pay attention, you will find that nature talks to you all the time. You just have to pay attention and listen.

The craziness on the news is another sign. If you watch the media, you have to wonder if they aren't suffering from a personality disorder. The media is looking very schizophrenic. One of the best ways to get some sanity is to take a break from the newspapers and the news media.

The insanity is almost ending. It's just a matter of time for justice to move forward. The solar flares are getting stronger and upgrading the DNA in many individuals right now. We've been moving into the twelve and thirteen strand DNA since 2012. A lot of DNA is repairing and activating itself as we go through the photon belt.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
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Saturday, April 20, 2019

Revolution

The energy is definitely changing, most people think a revolution has to be about a whole country revolting. What if it were a city instead of a whole county. Would that make it less of a revolution? The answer is NO! Any time a group of people is at a point where enough is enough!

When there is abuse of power or authority that continues to go unchecked, eventually you will get to a point where there is an invisible line in the sand. Once that line is crossed there is no going back. It can be for individuals or the masses. No one likes to feel oppressed! No One!

That point is coming closer and closer to that line. It will be very good for government to finally get the dressing down that it deserves! All those that defend the injustice are about to find that your fancy credentials may make you think your important! That's an illusion! People can give and take away that power at any given time.

When people become so complacent that they stop hearing the people they say they serve! The lip service is about to be called out! The people are getting closer and closer to pushing back! It's going to be quite delicious to see the ass hats freak the hell out! Run! you bitches! Run! There is no where for you to hide! May the games begin! As you are marched to the jails and prisons for your abuse of power! There will be City Officials, Justices and even the Mayor!

All of your bullshit is about to hit the shit fan! No services and more taxes, does not make happy taxpayers. Your slave and master mentality is about to get smashed into the the 21st Century and pulled out of the dark ages. The more you mess with people's finances and lives. The more you've thrown down the gauntlet to be confronted and challenged about what you really are!

You can feel the violence building from within! People are coming together as a community and saying you don't represent me! Your wrong, and we will stop you and your puppet judges too.
Government workers are about to get a huge wake up call too. Your safe little job, is about to be shaken and challenged. When the services don't match the cost there is a big disconnect.
The very existence of local government is about to be questioned, especially when most of it can be outsourced to contractors who do the job better and more cost effectively.

Will the revolution be this year or next only time will tell. It feels like its drawing closer and closer though.

Penny J (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
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Saturday, April 6, 2019

Change

As you review you life and where you are in you personal journey. Just remember if you can only change one thing. That one thing will start to make a difference even if you don't notice changes immediately. If the choices are limited, look at which would be the easiest change that your capable of making. Start to see which direction your life starts to go in. It's sort of like paddling a canoe. Those little changes will determine which way the current will move the canoe. Life is sort of like maneuvering in water. We can either fight against the current or find a way to make flow move in our favor.

There are many times, where we just can't think because we're much to close to the issue. It is only once we get some distance that we are able to see all of our choices more fully. It also depends on who we surround our selves with. We either have people that are on our team or against us. Just make sure that the advice you take from others is sound. There are many times that people spout off bullshit, not because it actually works. It's sometimes in the hope that it will suddenly work in some situation.

I find it interesting that people with small minds often repeat what they have heard as children as adults. There is no actual personal experience behind it, just ignorance. Then there are people that stand to profit from your lack of knowledge and theirs. Only take advice from people are well seasoned. That means they've experience all different scenarios of the Good, bad and the very worst. If they've learn-ed how to weather all of those scenarios. Then they're worth listening too.

Some people are just selling books about subjects they know nothing about. There is so much of that. Pick something you know about for those changes or the very least where there will be minor learning curves and less financial damage to yourself. Make sure the people you surround yourself with are secure in who they are.

Once you change what your able to, you will find that other things in your life start to follow suit. Some at first glance might seem like disaster and turn out to be blessings in disguise. Others will bring many, many blessings or gifts from the Universe as they seem to come in quickly like dominoes falling. It's about listening to your gut, are you wanting to throw up. If the decision makes you want to throw up that I wouldn't advise the decision. If it makes your heart sing and there is little financial or other risks involved that it is a safer bet.

These exercises in life is to build confidence in your decision making and  to prevent you from falling over a cliff financially. Start with little changes at first, if it going to help your life grow.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
info@ravenhawke.net
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Sunday, March 17, 2019

Spring

With the energy getting stronger and stronger. What are you  planting for Spring? It can be actual seeds in your garden or in your life? What have you set out to accomplish! Are you actually taking time to invest in your own future. This does not mean actually paying to go to school. Knowledge can be acquired by simply picking up a book, watching some videos. Or taking some online seminars.

Some people might be focusing on getting out of debt. Removing toxic people or work environments from our lives. Getting rid of clutter around your home. Whatever you want to change in your life. Just remember you do have control over bringing in some of that change. Just by taking action, whether its showing immediate results or not. You have started to participate in your own life and initiate change.

Not sure how to tackle money issues, libraries exist for that reason. Librarians are a resource too! Many people think that Librarians just shelve books. They have more training than you think. They are trained to access other resources online and within the library network. They can recommend books that are focused on your very problem.

Many people don't even scratch the surface of the resources around them. The libraries exist as a storage for resources and knowledge that is available to all. This is the equal and level playing field for those without money. It is the spring board to help you find some of the missing pieces in your education and help build a foundation for your ideas and dreams. It houses more than books on mysteries and romance novels.

When they say knowledge is power! Nothing could be more true! If you have dreams of creating a better future for yourself. This is one place to start, the staff at the library can also help you rind non-profit resources for your business to help with the next steps. This why expanding your network of people around you is so important. Poor people don't have the knowledge to help other poor people leave poverty. Same with Middle class! Once you have the road map out of your own limitations you can create so much more.

Your start to have choices, you start to see those dreams materialize. They lead to the road out of your limited world and open more opportunities for yourself and your family. So as the weather warms up. What will you plant this year?

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
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www.ravenhawke.net

Saturday, February 23, 2019

It's A Jungle Out There Baby!

One of the biggest reasons people should adult up, is to be able to survive different situations that LIFE might throw at you! In our world, there is domestic violence, mental abuse to both children and adults alike. Sad, but this is our reality! The abuse thing cuts through all social classes. Some bruises, might or might not be visible.

One must have skill in this tool box of personal knowledge would be learning about money. By learning how to handle money, an education that is not taught in any school that I know of. Bookkeeping would be the closest to money skills that I know of; and I would personally look at that as a foundation. The best place to learn some of these skills would be a library.

Another must have skill would be Law. Some schools have this class, Business Law is what you would want to take. This class can be used in real life and your own business should you decide to have one. Having your own business would be a real plus. It would allow you to have financial freedom. Getting back to the subject of Law classes, the next class would be to take Criminal Justice. Why you might ask would you want to take this class? Once you understand how this law applies to your life. It will open up your eyes to what your rights are and aren't. Criminal Justice Law is very black and white. There is no wiggle room for argument, unlike Business Law.

Psychology which is a class only taught at a College level or University. Why, it will help you understand dysfunctional relationships. You'll really start to understand the people in your life, be they family, friends or acquaintances. This is not saying that you have to like these people. It will give you some incite as to how they became the way they did. Marriage and Family is another class, it will explain a view of intimate relationships. Sort of the life cycle of a family.

Every adult should have their own money. No co-mingling of assets or money. This way if your in an abusive situation or relationship you will have an out. This gives you choices. Life should always be about choices. Otherwise, its sort of like living in a prison camp. People that have never experienced any sort of abuse in their lives might find this to be extreme. All I can say, is the reality of life is that there is no Prince or Princess that's going to sweep you off your feet and live a Happily Ever After.  Great ending to a book, but not a reality as we know it.

Every person should step up and take responsibility for you life. You are responsible for your own happiness, not anyone else. Be sure to make your life the best life you can have.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net

Saturday, February 9, 2019

Serenity

When is the last time you had serenity? Do you even know what it is? The most intimate relationship you can have is with yourself. Finding your inner peace. It is embracing quiet. Having a moment where you don't have to listen to the radio, TV or even the Internet.

Having time to actually think for yourself and not having other peoples thoughts and opinions shoved down your throat. Hearing both sides of actual facts! Not facts that are spoon fed to us. Coming to your own conclusion of what those facts are to you. No two people will totally agree on all the facts. That's what makes us! Us! We are not a Borg collective. We are comprised of individuals and as individuals we will always have a variety of thoughts. This does not make someone right and another wrong.

This is why having elected officials represent the "people" doesn't work. No one can truly represent you! The only true person that can represent you is YOU! When we have serenity. We can start to have clarity for ourselves. We think for ourselves, and make better informed decisions for ourselves. Why? Because we have the peace of mind to actually take the time to make up our own minds.

Serenity is about finding out who we are? What do we desire? Are we happy or unhappy? What is the truth or fiction? It allows us to take a breathe, relax and reexamine whats going right or not right in our lives.

When we have inner peace we actually are able feel what is going on around us. Does something feel  calm or chaotic? Are we on the right path for ourselves or have we gone off course? Taking time to get quiet allows us to reconnect to source. Reading a book, listening to music? Taking time for ourselves to think or learn. Having time to grow as a person.

Nature can be a very calming and nurturing expression for ourselves. When you take time to just be you. You learn to embrace the real you! The good, bad and the ugly parts of your personality that make up you. You might find that when you take the time to get to know the real you; when you explore that part of yourself. You will find that it makes you a much stronger person, instead of ignoring those parts of yourself that society has deemed as undesirable and weaknesses.

Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net