Is Your Life Calmness or Chaos?

Does shit constantly seem to be happening to you. It's almost like your life is Soap Opera? Lots and lots of drama. Or does your life seem calm and steady. Look around in your life. Where is it the most chaotic and start there. If it's in your work environment, see if you can find a different position with your company or look for a more positive work environment if that possible. If it's relationships in your life. Start to do an inventory of whose on your side or against you. This doesn't mean that your friends or family members can't be real with you.

Once you start to make even little changes, you should start to see a difference. Pay attention to the changes in your life. Sometimes it can be that your in the wrong type of work or surrounded by the wrong type of people in your life. Sometimes we need to make changes in ourselves. So find out what you like or don't like in your life or about yourself.

If you just love chaos and that's who you are! Then own it! Sometimes it's about facing the things we don't like about ourselves head on. I call this shadow work. This is not about judging the things we don't like. If their changeable than fine. If their not, it's about how do you embrace that part of yourself. The more you try to deny that part of yourself the more that it will surface. Sort of like a child having a temper tantrum. That's why it's a good idea to let that part of yourself out to play more often in a safe way. This way that little gremlin or yourself doesn't come out at the worst possible moment. Think of this as damage control! LOL!

If you have calmness in your life an it's just flowing and having each step line up with the next step. Than congratulations, you living the dream and life is working with you! The objective is to make your life easier not torture. It should not feel like your moving through quick sand. So have yourself the very best life your capable of having!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
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