Is Your Life Calmness or Chaos?

Does shit constantly seem to be happening to you. It's almost like your life is Soap Opera? Lots and lots of drama. Or does your life seem calm and steady. Look around in your life. Where is it the most chaotic and start there. If it's in your work environment, see if you can find a different position with your company or look for a more positive work environment if that possible. If it's relationships in your life. Start to do an inventory of whose on your side or against you. This doesn't mean that your friends or family members can't be real with you.

Once you start to make even little changes, you should start to see a difference. Pay attention to the changes in your life. Sometimes it can be that your in the wrong type of work or surrounded by the wrong type of people in your life. Sometimes we need to make changes in ourselves. So find out what you like or don't like in your life or about yourself.

If you just love chaos and that's who you are! Then own it! Sometimes it's about facing the things we don't like about ourselves head on. I call this shadow work. This is not about judging the things we don't like. If their changeable than fine. If their not, it's about how do you embrace that part of yourself. The more you try to deny that part of yourself the more that it will surface. Sort of like a child having a temper tantrum. That's why it's a good idea to let that part of yourself out to play more often in a safe way. This way that little gremlin or yourself doesn't come out at the worst possible moment. Think of this as damage control! LOL!

If you have calmness in your life an it's just flowing and having each step line up with the next step. Than congratulations, you living the dream and life is working with you! The objective is to make your life easier not torture. It should not feel like your moving through quick sand. So have yourself the very best life your capable of having!

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net

Do You Have Chao In Your Life?

Look at your relationships, work, car and home. Do you have projects of things that are started but were never finished! Pay attention, they have a way of dragging our energy and life force down. They can effect your life in so many ways. Losing money, no energy, forgetfulness, bad relationships. Bad work environment and co-workers. Look around, and see what is broken? Needs repair or just needs to be replaced with something better!

Our life is mirrored in so many ways. When you have a house that is a joy to come home too. Your energy is lighter and more exciting. It feels amazing to see whats around the corner!When you start to fix or repair things in your home, car or relationships. See how things start to turn around. If you've out grown a relationship. It will start to fade and allow for new relationships to come in that are a better match for growth for one or both individuals.

People that have balance in their lives usually have less drama too. Does money seem to hang out with them more? Probably because they always making sure that they are growing and challenging themselves in positive ways. The fastest way to make some of these changes if your not handy is to hire someone that specializes in that type of work. Becareful though, you want someone that puts quality into their work and doesn't bring anger into your home. This is why sometimes the cheapest person for the job isn't the best.

I once had a band new home that was built. The contractors started to get into a pissing match by punching holes into the walls where outles and fixtues were. The electrician and the contractor were getting into it and the house was starting to take on their anger energy. It wasn't good! It can make people living in that house start to have fights! In their self absorbtion, they had forgotten that this was someone's home. It wasn't their personal battle field.

When I've hired people to work on my home. I've found that I start to have some extra visitors. If your contractor suddenly hits the wagon again (means drinking or substance abuse if they were previousl recovering). Usually entities that used to be acholics or drug users when they had a body. Like to hang out with people suffering from those conditions. They will step into their bodies to get that fix.

Can't tell how your house feels. Go to house that is above your means when they are having an open house and pay attention to the feeling you get from it. If the house is brand new it should feel high energy and exciting! Then go back to your house and see if it feels draining? comfortable? Heavy? If it feels draining or heavy. Go through each room and see what state those rooms are in. Are they a mess? Are they needing new paint? Is something broken or half started or not finished? As you finish these projects see how the energy starts to feel. I the rooms don't need repairs, was there an arguement or fight in that room. You might want to burn some incense in there til that feeling finally lightens up.

Your house is your biggest sanctuary. You need to protect it. Clutter can be another energy killer. If you have to store documents because of legal reasons than do it. Are your relationships supportive of who you are or want to become? Relationships that aren't healthy don't help you grow as a person. Are you excited to go to work or not so much? Is it the work or the co-worker? When we start to make changes and clean up messes it trickles into our personal lives.

Next time your stuck! Look  around and see what going on?

Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net