This is the perfect season for cleaning out those things and people that don't match you any more. It is about acknowledging how far you've come and where you are now. Growth is a very good thing! Change is not the enemy. Embrace when it's time to trade up. This can be buying new clothes, updating things in your home. People you surround yourself with.
What kind of a mindset do you have and the people around you. Are you surrounding yourself with drama? Are you empowered and growing as a person? Take time to think about what you want to learn for the coming season. These are tools that will empower and build yourself confidence. If you have a business, what are your goals for yourself and your business.
Having the courage to let go of people that need to grow. Making sure that your empowering yourself and others. This means not enabling others and creating co-dependence. This is the worst thing anyone can do to another person.
This is the perfect time to rearrange things in your life and home. You know when things are a perfect fit. Everything will start to flow. Now is the perfect time to let go of all the dead things in your life. Plants, relationships and family. It's the time to make your environment feel cozy and warm. Pay attention to the food and people you bring into your life.
Make sure that the things you surround yourself with are things that make you feel happy or calm. This means upgrading the things you surround yourself. You should feel happy and excited to come home. Your home is your sanctuary, be sure to treat it as such.
It is the perfect time to write and create art. Pull out your favorite recipes for cooking and baking.
This time of year has a feeling and a smell. Make sure to embrace that feeling and make it your own.
Penny J. (MN, USA)
Raven Hawke, Llc
info@ravenhawke.net
www.ravenhawke.net
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
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Tuesday, October 2, 2018
Wednesday, October 4, 2017
Life
Some where a long the way, people came to this unfortunate conclusion that it's not ok to make mistakes. So they practically wrap their kids in bubble wrap or have a safety net for them. They never allow them to make even the most basic mistake.
Even famous people through out history have made mistakes. Some times numerous time. Without these mistakes they would have never learned what does and does not work. These are all part of the right of passage in the game of life. Without these learning experiences, small things suddenly become these blown out of proportion life changing experiences that cause lots of unnecessary drama and stress.
Mistakes are part of learning survival and growing skills. No one knows everything. This misconception that mistakes are bad is what is causing the younger generations to over react an commit suicide or stress out over things that are easily fixed. When you deny people these learning opportunities; your are stealing from them an opportunity to learn something valuable about themselves. You not allowing them to learn problem solving skills.
You in essence teaching them that their failures and not smart enough to solve their own life problems. This unfortunately makes the situation worse. The reason people make mistakes or encounter problems is to teach them small solutions from a young age; so they are able to handle adult solutions to problems as they become adults. To have more confidence in themselves and less stress.
Without these progressions, these people are unprepared for life and have a bigger learning curve. They must take steps backwards to learn some of; if not all of the basics that they were denied learning to begin with.
Penny J. (MN, USA)
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
Even famous people through out history have made mistakes. Some times numerous time. Without these mistakes they would have never learned what does and does not work. These are all part of the right of passage in the game of life. Without these learning experiences, small things suddenly become these blown out of proportion life changing experiences that cause lots of unnecessary drama and stress.
Mistakes are part of learning survival and growing skills. No one knows everything. This misconception that mistakes are bad is what is causing the younger generations to over react an commit suicide or stress out over things that are easily fixed. When you deny people these learning opportunities; your are stealing from them an opportunity to learn something valuable about themselves. You not allowing them to learn problem solving skills.
You in essence teaching them that their failures and not smart enough to solve their own life problems. This unfortunately makes the situation worse. The reason people make mistakes or encounter problems is to teach them small solutions from a young age; so they are able to handle adult solutions to problems as they become adults. To have more confidence in themselves and less stress.
Without these progressions, these people are unprepared for life and have a bigger learning curve. They must take steps backwards to learn some of; if not all of the basics that they were denied learning to begin with.
Penny J. (MN, USA)
www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
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