This year has been a unique year. The seasons are coming earlier and we had the winter from hell. It started to feel like winter would never end. This year, I lost some plants. Some plants didn't bear fruit when it usually produces. Even more positive things have been coming. I notice it more and more when I stick to my guns so to speak. When I refuse to put myself into an abusive environment, I am rewarded with a healthy work environment with positive team members.
I'm not saying to not take a job if you really need the money to meet your bills. I am saying to pick what things you can put up with in a short term if you have too. Usually what happens is after you've taken that job, another opportunity will that is more positive or with more money will show up.
Things that used to show up in the past have stopped showing up in my life. It's like the Universe has gotten the memo that I am changing and I expect positive changes in my life as well. Start by making a small list of the changes that you'd like to see in your life. You also have to make sure that you show up for your life! What does that mean? It means, that you have to participate in your life. Life doesn't happen to us. It happens, when we refuse to participate in our own lives.
The bullies that might have been in your work environment start to leave or you get offered a better job and you no longer have to be around them. Some changes will happen immediately and others will show up in baby steps. Start with changes that have been bugging you for a while. Look at it as pulling weeds in your garden or clearing out the clutter in your life.
People do learn how to treat you by how you treat yourself. If your dealing with a bully that's a different matter. In this situation, see if you can switch departments? If things are totally unbearable, start looking for another job to remove yourself out of this situation. It can be taking a long term temporary or contract position to remove yourself from a horrible situation.
I have seen the Universe respond to me faster and faster. I am getting more of the environments that I desire!
Penny J.
Raven Hawke, Llc (MN, USA)
http://www.ravenhawke.net
info@ravenhawke.net
